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Sunday, October 2, 2011

COMMUNICATE CLEARLY AND EFFECTIVELY with your children

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COMMUNICATE CLEARLY AND EFFECTIVELY with 


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Communication is a two way street. Just as you want your child to listen to you, your child wants to feel that he is being listened to as well. You don't always have to agree with what your child has to say, but listen and let him finish what he has to say and respect what he says. Actively rephrasing parts of what your child has said, helps him to know that you are listening.

How you, as a parent, talk and communicate with your child, is important to your relationship with your child. Parents are their child's first teachers, and showing your child positive ways of interacting and communicating will give him the skills to communicate back to you and the world around him in a positive way. 
Listening is a skill for children and adults. Listening to children helps them learn how to express their feelings, concerns and ideas. One of the best methods to teach children to listen to the ideas, feelings or requests of others is to listen to theirs as well.

Connect With Your Child
According to AskDrSears.com, the first key to communication effectively is to connect with the child. Use your child's name at the beginning of your request. Make sure your child knows that you are speaking to her and make eye contact with her. For a small child, getting down to her eye level before speaking and telling her that you need her to listen, can get her attention focused on your request.

Use Body Language and Tone of Voice
Our posture and body language is a part of the way we communicate with others. We can show someone we are really listening by our body language, including facial gestures, head movements and eye contact. Our body language can also give us away if we say one thing but mean another. Our children learn to read our body language and our tone of voice early on in our parenting relationship. "Too often your voice and expression speak as loudly as your words, and if you are bored while your children are talking, they're likely to react the same way to you while you are speaking to them,"

Know When to End the Discussion
Sometimes the only option is to close the discussion. Let your child know that there will be no more discussion on a topic. Be calm, but firmly say that this topic is closed.

Encourage Verbal Communication
Encouraging children, regardless of age, to express themselves also means teaching them the difference between appropriate and inappropriate verbalization. Maintaining eye contact and turning off the television, radio or putting the newspaper or magazine down when a child is speaking reinforces that what he has to say is important to you and also teaches him courteous behavior toward others when they're speaking.

Resist the Temptation to Interrupt
Children, regardless of age, may not always express themselves quickly or clearly. If a child experiences difficulty explaining something, gently encourage her to continue. Don't grow impatient with a child who seems to be talking in circles, but gently guide her to be more precise or try to explain in greater detail what she means or is trying to express.

Read the Signs
Pay attention to visual cues that help you understand how a child might be feeling, even if he's expressing himself clearly. Also be aware of your own visual cues. Guard against displaying anger or impatience with your facial expressions. Maintain eye contact and encourage the child to express what she's feeling and why.

Encourage Questions
Resist the temptation to ask a child a yes or no question if you're trying to get him to communicate with you, as these just lead to dead ends. Ask the child to share his feelings or ideas and share your own with him as well. Encourage polite discussions and dialogue.

Know When to Stop
Don't expect a 6-year-old, or even a 17-year-old, to be able to communicate everything. Respect privacy, but do let your child know you're always available to listen when he is ready to talk. Fidgeting, staring, distraction and pure stubbornness are indications that your child is not willing to share or express himself at the moment. Respect those feelings and let it go. Try again later.

The Prophet sallallahu alaihe wassallam was the most effective communicator. He used various techniques to express his views and ideas in the most effective way. When the Prophet sallallahu alaihe wassallam wanted to deliver a message to someone, he would attract their attention in various ways, such as:
1. By starting with a question
2. By giving examples
3. By using reason and logic to explain his argument in a convincing way

These are the important principle to follow with everybody, especially with children. They deserve to be given proper explanation that suites their level of understanding. Unfortunately, some parents do no use logic or do not explain things properly when their children ask certain questions. Some parents may not even allow their children to discuss or ask questions related to the deen. They might order their children to do something and only provide an explanation such as, “You have to do that because I said so!” or “You have to do it because you are a Muslim”. Such explanations are not enough. Parents should not only allow their children to ask questions, but should even encourage them to do so, and then provide them with proper answers. This is the only healthy way to train our children to be strong Muslims and to be convinced about what they do. It will also provide them with proper answers that they give to other people who may ask them why they behave in a certain manner or do certain things.

The result of effective and clear communication with children is long-lasting closeness and a strong bond between children and their parents. Certain times of the day are more effective than others for building these bonds. Among these special times are: early morning, as soon as the child wakes up; after the child comes home from school; at the dinner table; and before the child goes to bed. Parents should prepare themselves to make the most of these times and utilize them properly.

Keeping an open channel of communication with the child when he is young is an important investment for the teenage years. All of these ways of communicating help to establish a strong bond between children and their parents and enhance their relationship and level mutual respect.

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Friday, September 30, 2011

EAT THESE FOODS AND BE FREE FROM BLOOD PRESSURE


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5 Powerful Foods that Lower Your Blood Pressure
Are you eating enough of these 5 amazing foods that help reduce high blood pressure?
by Frank Mangano
Consumer Health Advocate
Author of the popular book:  
Blood Pressure Miracle
Did you know that stroke and coronary heart disease still remain to be on the list of the top three main causes of death in the USA?  It's time to take your health seriously so you don't fall victim to these! 
What is High Blood Pressure and how does this come into play?
According to the National Institute for Health, blood pressure levels of 140/90 mmHg or more can be classified ashypertension.
The worst part about having high blood pressure is that the condition can sometimes be present without any symptoms and before we know it, the damage is already extensive. Serious problems that have been associated with high blood pressure include kidney failure, heart attack, heart failure and stroke.
What are the Risk Factors Associated with High Blood Pressure?
Blood pressure can be influenced by a lot of factors – age, race, family history, tobacco use, sedentary lifestyle, diet, binge drinking, and stress levels. Chronic conditions such as sleep apnea, diabetes and high cholesterol levels can also precipitate the development of hypertension.
What can You Do to Lower Blood Pressure?
You don't need potentially dangerous drugs to control and reduce your blood pressure. Controlling blood pressure levels could be as simple as doing lifestyle modifications and eating healthier.
If you are a smoker, quit. If you drink heavily, try to practice self-control. At work, take the stairs instead of the elevator. And if you have been obsessed with sweet, sugary foods as well as processed fast-food meals, then modify your eating habits as well. Learn to eat the right kinds of food before it's too late.
Below are 5 of my top picks for powerful foods that could help you lower your blood pressure levels:
artichokes help lower blood pressure1. Artichokes
The use of artichokes has been implicated in the lowering of cholesterol levels in the blood. Since hypercholesterolemia is one of the risk factors for high blood pressure, this information is actually good news.  Three clinical trials conducted separately by Dr. Barbara Wider supports this fact. In Cochrane Database of Systemic Reviews’ October 2009 issue, where the result of the study was published, it was shown that patients who were diagnosed with hypercholesterolemia and given Artichoke leaf extract exhibited a decrease in their blood cholesterol levels.
Artichokes taste amazing steamed (generally steam for about 1 hour) and then dip each piece into a mixture of olive oil, grass-fed butter, and garlic.  Delicious!
bananas cut high blood pressure2.  Bananas
A study published in The New England Journal of Medicine says that incorporating bananas in your day-to-day meals can actually cut stroke-related deaths by as much as 40 percent. A 1997 study at Johns Hopkins University recommended eating at least five bananas daily to achieve the desired effect, and that is to lower elevated blood pressure levels. However, a study conducted by Indian researchers at the Kasturba medical college revealed that people who eat two bananas a day, for one whole week, can lower their blood pressure levels by 10 percent.
Bananas are rich in potassium, which is responsible for the proper functioning of the heart.  It works with sodium to maintain balance of the body’s fluids, which is an important factor in the regulation of blood pressure.

compounds in beets beat blood pressure3.  Beets
A research study conducted by scientists from Barts and The London School Medicine revealed that simply drinking one 500 ml glass of beetroot juice each day can produce astounding health benefits, especially to the heart.
Beetroot juice has been found to lower high blood pressure levels. Professors Amrita Ahluwalia and Ben Benjamin, from the William Harvey Research Institute and Peninsula Medical Center, respectively, led the research efforts, which revealed that the consumption of dietary nitrate that is found in beetroot has BP-lowering effects in as fast as 1 hour after ingestion, with the effect lasting for up to 24 hours. The result of the study was published in the March 2008 issue of Hypertension.
You can try beetroot juice, or also try baked beets sliced on salads or as a side dish to dinner.

cocoa helps lower blood pressure4.  Cocoa
A study conducted by researchers from Germany’s University Hospital of Cologne revealed that cocoa can significantly lower high blood pressure levels. Study results were published in the Archives of Internal Medicine. The beneficial heart effects of cocoa are attributed to its flavonoid content, specifically procyanids.
Because cocoa is most commonly found in chocolate, people falsely assume that eating a lot of chocolate could be good for the health. Keep in mind that cocoa in chocolates have undergone a lot of processing, and it has been mixed with loads of sugar, so this is not totally healthy. The best way to take advantage of the health benefits offered by cocoa is to choose raw cacao – it is good for the heart, the brain and the liver.  Raw cacao nibs go great in smoothies!  Also use organic cocoa powder in smoothies or homemade hot cocoa sweetened with stevia instead of sugar.

garlic fights hypertension5.  Garlic
Researchers from South Australia’s University of Adelaide have conducted studies, which provide solid proof that the consumption of garlic can indeed help lower elevated blood pressure levels. Garlic supplements in powder form were given and results revealed that it produced a reduction in systolic blood pressure. Garlic has been known all over the world as a very important herb, especially with its heart-protecting capabilities. It helps lower blood cholesterol levels and prevents blood from forming clots (which could lead to heart attack and stroke).
Furthermore, the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences journal has published the results of a laboratory test showing how garlic juice can lead to a decrease in blood pressure levels. Eating the equivalent of 2 cloves of garlic each day can significantly contribute to the health of the heart.

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சிறப்பு செய்திகள்
திருமண தடை நீங்க
மஞ்சள் கொண்டு பிள்ளையார் செய்து வழிபட்டால் திருமண தடை நீங்கும்.திருமணமான தம்பதிகள் வழிபட்டால் அழகான ஆண்குழந்தை பிறக்கும் .
புகழ் ,உயர்ந்த பதவி கிடைக்க
மண்ணால் செய்த பிள்ளையாரை பூஜித்தால் நல்ல பதவி கிடைக்கும். புகழ் ,அந்தஸ்து ,கீர்த்தி கிடைக்கும் .உயர்ந்த பதவிகளில் கொண்டுபோய் அமர்த்துவார் .
வியாபாரத்தில் லாபம் கிடைக்க
புற்று மண்ணில் செய்த பிள்ளையாரை பூஜித்து வழிபட்டால் வியாபாரத்தில் நல்ல லாபத்தை அடையலாம்.வியாபார ரீதியாக ஏற்படும் தடைகள் அனைத்தும் நீங்கும் .புற்று மண் என்பது புண்ணிய நதிகளின் நீரைப்போன்று புனிதமானது .
சர்வ சித்தி ,திருடர் பயம் நீங்க
வெல்லத்தால் செய்த பிள்ளையாரை பூஜித்து வழிபட்டால் சகல பாக்கியத்தையும் பெறலாம் .உள்ளத்தில் ஏற்படும் பயம் நீங்கி மனத்தெளிவு உண்டாகும் .எதிரிகளை வெல்ல வெல்லத்தால் செய்த பிள்ளையாருக்கு சனிக்கிழமை தோறும் பக்தியுடன் பூஜிக்க வேண்டும் .
உறவினர் பகை நீங்க
உப்பினால் செய்த பிள்ளையாரை வணங்கினால் உறவினர் பகை நீங்கி சொந்தங்கள் அனைவரும் உங்களை தேடி வருவர் .
அறிவு ,கூர்மையான புத்தி,தெய்வ வாக்கு கிடைக்க
வெள்ளெருக்குப் பிள்ளையாரை பூஜித்தால் கூர்மையான அறிவு பெறலாம். மந்த புத்தியில் தெளிவு உண்டாகும் .மனிதர்களை உங்கள் பேச்சினால் வெற்றிகொள்ளலாம் .தெய்வ வாக்கு போல் நீங்கள் சொல்லும் வாக்கு அமையும் .நீங்கள் சொல்வது அனைத்தும் நடக்கும் .முறையாக வழிபட வேண்டும் .
எண்ணிய காரியங்கள் உடனே கைகூட
பசுஞ்சாணியால் பிள்ளையார் செய்து பூஜித்தால் எண்ணிய காரியங்கள் கைகூடும்.
உடல் வியாதிகள் .தோல் நோய்கள் நீங்க
வெண்ணெய் கொண்டு பிள்ளையார் செய்து பூஜித்தால் உடல் நோய்கள் நீங்கும்,நரம்புத்தளர்ச்சி நீங்கும் ,தோல் நோய்கள் நீங்கும் .
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